I guess that last blog was a bit harsh. However, the world is a harsh place. It is, no matter how much we want to gloss it over. The sooner we realize it, the less suffering we will have at the hands of any other delusion we might harbor.
Suffering comes from having differing expectations than what reality can deliver. In the measure that we can align what we want from the world, with what the world can provide, then we will suffer less. Certainly, this doesn't mean we can't dream, nor does it mean that we can't strive to acheive those dreams . But it does mean that if we delude ourselves into thinking that the world is made of dreams, then we will be in for a rude awakening. Some dreams will come true, many will not.
Deal with it.